Finding out your partner’s been unfaithful is one of the most devastating things that can happen to you in a relationship. Even if you’re the type of person who doesn't consider cheating (especially if it’s purely physical) to be a huge deal, and would give him another chance, you must know it’s simply not as easy as that.
Being deceived and lied to does not feel good and definitely puts a big strain on the relationship. Discovering that there’s been infidelity on his par may leave you bitter, angry, resentful… These are not feelings you can just shake off and put in a little box to shelf somewhere deep inside your mind. And that’s exactly what you shouldn't do. What you should do is really take time to work through all those feelings, by yourself at first, and then, with your partner (if you decide you want to and actually can do so). This leads us to the first step:
1. To Be or Not to Be, This is the Question
After the initial shock has passed you’ll realize you have an important decision on your hands. And this is where you’ll really need to be honest with yourself! Think hard – can you really forgive? Do you even want to? Would you feel more comfortable if